Thursday, September 29, 2011

New Bio, Updated About Me Page

I haven't felt satisfied with the bio I had on the About Me and the Family page for a while now.  It was a couple of years old, and though still pretty much accurate, just didn't really feel right anymore.  So today, I wrote a new (longer) one!  I also updated my photo on that page and my family's bios.  Go check it out!  Or just read my updated bio below:

My name is Idzie Desmarais, and I'm a 20 year old lifelong learner who lives in Montreal, Quebec with my wonderful family. 

Very short bio:  I'm an unschooling vegetarian animistic green-anarchist feminist hippie child.  I'm a writer, thinker, dreamer...  A woman, a sister, a daughter, a friend. I'm also an unschooling advocate/activist, a lover of food, and a radical.

Much longer bio:  I'm a kindergarten drop-out who, excluding those six months of kindergarten, has never been to school.  Instead, I grew up following my passions and figuring things out in my own time.  In my late teens I became fascinated with the education (often referred to as unschooling) I'd grown up with, and started reading everything I could about unschooling and freedom-based education, going to unschooling conferences, and writing the blog I'm Unschooled. Yes, I Can Write.  At this point, as well as still doing all of those things, I'm also very involved with the freedom-based education movement in my home city, as well as the wider unschooling/freedom-based education community through the making of connections and friendships with people scattered across North America (and beyond!).  Basically?  I think unschooling is really, really cool, and that the ideas found in that philosophy can be a powerful tool of both personal and social transformation.

I'm a radical creature, a green anarchist and feminist, who leans strongly towards anti-civ thought.  I'm against hierarchy and rulers, imposed authority, capitalism, patriarchy/kyrarchy, and similar nasty stuff.  I try to be as aware as I can of oppression and privilege (in the interest of knowing where I'm coming from in my writing, I'm a white, cisgender, able-bodied, lower-middle-class, not-quite-straight woman), and to basically just not be an asshole.  I'm currently super interested in radical sustainability; communal, cooperative, collective, and community-based living (especially intentional communities); queer and gender stuff; feminism; getting stuff for free/living on very little/no money...

I love food.  As in, REALLY love food!  I've never been very successful at actually doing so, but I am interested in growing food, foraging, and dumpster diving, as well as sharing and trading food, farmers markets, and basically anything that involves me getting food.  I love cooking, cooking for others, and eating.  I love trying new foods, new restaurants, and I even like doing food prep.  I'm vegetarian, and have been since age eight, but though I don't really plan to change my diet anytime soon, or start cooking with meat, I'm no longer as attached to the idea of always being vegetarian as I used to be (though I know if I do start eating meat at some point, I will be VERY picky.).

My spirituality is closely tied into to the realization that all life is of equal worth, that the Earth/Nature is sacred, and that humans are animals, and like all animals, we belong in functioning living communities.  Sometimes I use the term animist to refer to my spiritual beliefs.

I often say I'm a hippie, which isn't really a word with a clear definition, but when I use it it basically just means that I'm a radical, tree-hugging, non-shaving, organic-farm-loving person who sometimes likes to wear tie-dye.

I value honesty and genuine expression greatly, and only really feel comfortable when I feel I'm being genuine.  I seek to share my trials and difficulties in my writing, how I'm actually feeling about things and my true opinions, not just what will sound good, or what will get the best reactions.  I feel like I'm mostly successful in this, though not always.

I love getting comments, though I don't respond to them nearly as often as I should.  Same for emails: I can be contacted at, and though I read every single email I get, I am VERY bad at responding to them (I usually respond eventually, but it takes me a very long time)!  If you really want to talk to me, the best way to do so is through Skype.  Just email me ( to set up a specific time, or add me: idziee (two e's), and just poke me when I'm online.  I really like meeting and talking to new people, and I'm happy to answer questions!

I can also be found on:
I'm Unschooled. Yes, I Can Write. Facebook Page 


  1. Great bio! I find your postings interesting and I can't wait to read more about you and your life. By the way, thanks for expanding my vocabulary; I had to look up cisgendered. :)

  2. Cool bio! I like your new haircut if it is "new."

    "I try to be as aware as I can of oppression and privilege (in the interest of knowing where I'm coming from in my writing, I'm a white, cisgender, able-bodied, lower-middle-class, not-quite-straight woman), and to basically just not be an asshole." <-- this is very good! What do you mean by not-quite-straight woman? Curious to know how you might describe yourself, if you feel like doing that at all. I describe myself as "gender non-comformimg and Two-Spirit!" Also wanted to share this -- I find it to be very cool.

  3. @Bev: Thank you, really glad to hear that! Also happy to introduce you to some new terminology. :-)

    Anishinaabekwe: Thank you!! I tend to be a bit insecure about posting new bios and pictures of me, so that's good to hear. :-)

    It was really important to me that I add that list of personal identity/background/what-have-you, because I felt that that was something lacking from past bios I've had... As for describing my sexuality/sexual orientation, right now that's something I don't really have a label for. I identify strongly as a woman, and I'm mostly attracted to men, but then sometimes I'm also attracted to women and non-binary people... So basically, I feel like I'm not straight enough to be straight, because I'm not only attracted to men, but not queer enough to be queer, since I am mostly attracted to men!! Thus, I remain label-less when it comes to sexuality.

    Thanks for the Facebook link, I'm gonna check it out! :-)

    @Majikfaerie: Thank you! :-)

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  5. Hi I deleted my comment (a question) because I needed to elaborate it better. I put it up on the always learning yahoo list :(

    I wanted to thank you for stimulating me enough to actually write out what is going on for me right now internally. I chose to remove the post because it was too short to represent what I was trying to ask you.
    thanks for writing
    I enjoy reading you:)
    in italy

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