tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8805323468407241809.post6597123764795809702..comments2023-12-17T05:54:56.396-05:00Comments on I'm Unschooled. Yes, I Can Write.: The Frustration of Being That Unschooled PersonIdzie Desmaraishttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12782266545123946006noreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8805323468407241809.post-43361270322816449762014-04-04T09:28:59.414-04:002014-04-04T09:28:59.414-04:00I have just read the majority of this post to my a...I have just read the majority of this post to my almost 10 year old daughter. She wanted me to ask you if you ever had schooled friends growing up and how you dealt with the pressure of other kids who seem to think it's ok to quiz, and question incessantly about why she isn't in school. I am encouraging her to stand up for herself in these instances but the peer pressure is so hard, sometimes. I ache for my kid who is The Unschooled One, some days. Anyway, thank you Idzie, for sharing your journey. I find your posts to be so incredibly inspirational and your voice is so refreshing. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16962905037307936545noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8805323468407241809.post-1649286636270996222013-01-25T08:37:41.853-05:002013-01-25T08:37:41.853-05:00I am an unschooling mom to three children and I ab...I am an unschooling mom to three children and I absolutely love this post! Thank you so much for sharing your experiences as I too have gone through similar questioning regarding my decision to unschool. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8805323468407241809.post-70341390455231955992013-01-19T15:52:02.639-05:002013-01-19T15:52:02.639-05:00Good for you! Do what you want to, and where your...Good for you! Do what you want to, and where your heart leads. And by the way I really like that neat blue sweater! Sweedie-The-Cathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04172406600329418078noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8805323468407241809.post-88471985820858345592013-01-17T23:42:45.529-05:002013-01-17T23:42:45.529-05:00I have nominated your blog for a Liebster Award, a...I have nominated your blog for a Liebster Award, an award for new-up-and-coming blogs. Please check out my blog post!<br />You are one of my faves!<br /><br />http://taytayhser.blogspot.com.au/2013/01/the-liebster-award.html<br /><br />KarenKarenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03309932952235453461noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8805323468407241809.post-32009699896789118772013-01-11T07:40:35.172-05:002013-01-11T07:40:35.172-05:00Hi,
Very inspirational blog.
I am a 15 year old...Hi,<br /><br />Very inspirational blog. <br /><br />I am a 15 year old home educated young person. I live in the UK. <br /><br />Lot's of people ask me about being home educated and sometimes the questions can get quite rude. I am frequently asked "is it legal?"<br /><br />I think unschooling is very interesting. However it must surely take a lot of courage on your part. <br /><br /><br /><br /> Hi, I'm "Special"...https://www.blogger.com/profile/00631883353344892256noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8805323468407241809.post-16620220514128252832013-01-08T08:06:29.525-05:002013-01-08T08:06:29.525-05:00I am thankful for this (your) blog. My wife and I ...I am thankful for this (your) blog. My wife and I are beginning the journey into un-schooling with our three children. We've determined not to refer to our method of learning with a label for the very reasons you mention above. I look forward to reading more, so we can get an advanced picture of some of the things we should expect as we move forward. Thank you for acting on the courageous urgings of your soul.chrisrowlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12767922937727254553noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8805323468407241809.post-69841378352919242262012-12-31T01:08:15.591-05:002012-12-31T01:08:15.591-05:00I, too, am a unschooling mom and I still find at t...I, too, am a unschooling mom and I still find at times it's easier to say we homeschool just so I don't feel that I have to answer someones questions about my children's capacities. I feel your frustration and please understand that you are who you are because of unschooling. You are absolutely fabulous. I just sent your interview with your mother to my husband (I am at work writing this. lol) and we are both breathing a sigh of relief that we made the right decision. Keep doing you! I know you are not my child, but I am proud of you and you are our hero!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03867656893665409731noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8805323468407241809.post-57719102177285981032012-12-19T12:15:36.975-05:002012-12-19T12:15:36.975-05:00Keep being who you are. The world needs more and m...Keep being who you are. The world needs more and more people like you (and like me :P ).<br />izumiizuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01261010605425407216noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8805323468407241809.post-468669931468410302012-12-17T18:11:57.255-05:002012-12-17T18:11:57.255-05:00How rude of the person to test you. At any age it ...How rude of the person to test you. At any age it is unacceptable and rude, but especially to do it to an adult as an adult! I think your reply was marvelous. People are compelled to act in this way due to their their own insecurities. Don't let their insecurities be yours.<br /><br />I think it's awfully liberating to attempt to live without labels. I know it's impossible to live without any, but to minimize them is a great feeling. Why as humans must we label everything and everyone! No longer do I feel the urge to label my family as unschoolers. We just are. I like it better like this, and it feels like the pressure is off to live up to a certain label.. Hugs. Tovahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09407495948193521704noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8805323468407241809.post-4482626962084788192012-12-17T07:11:12.502-05:002012-12-17T07:11:12.502-05:00After spending five tumultuous years in the system...After spending five tumultuous years in the system my eldest pleaded with me to take him out of "school" Knowing absolutely nothing about homeschooling I followed my nose and eventually found the courage to try it.It was at this point that the public but more surprisingly the homeschooling community left me feeling like I had to choose a style and then a label to define what sort of homeschoolers we were.I dutifully started labeling ourselves as "eclectic" so I would have an answer to the inevitable first question at the homeschooling meetings and events.I really had no idea what we were! I felt silly saying it and after several years of experimenting with various approaches to learning I decided to not answer that question anymore.A reply would instantly peg us as a certain breed and I didn't feel I wanted to be associated with any one tribe just so we could be understood.Labels are too limiting and really don't have much to offer in revealing how useful we might be or who we are as people. <br /> The unschooling label seems to carry the heaviest burden and your outpouring of emotion here seems to confirm that.<br />When I first heard the expression unschooling it was attached to your name.My first thought was,what a cool name! but mostly I thought how courageous to be so forthright about your journey considering all the negative attention it attracts.I suggest and hope you find a way to re fuel yourself ,carry that label with pride or maybe drop the label altogether and just be...You are a happy spark in a topsy turvy world-don't forget that! <br /> <br />(Would love to chat and introduce my boys to you one day so they (and I ) can learn from your experience.)<br /><br />Isobel<br /><br /><br />Isobel Williamshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05974192105263715128noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8805323468407241809.post-25809704270899126432012-12-17T04:19:07.239-05:002012-12-17T04:19:07.239-05:00How annoying to STILL have to deal with poorly-edu...How annoying to STILL have to deal with poorly-educated buffoons.<br />Also, my opinion about getting into college, and PAYING for it, if a person can get through the admission and PAY process of college, I believe one deserves a diploma!<br /><br />Good luck with that, KarenKarenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03309932952235453461noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8805323468407241809.post-71620857365885321072012-12-16T22:28:04.073-05:002012-12-16T22:28:04.073-05:00I unschooled until taking college (university) cou...I unschooled until taking college (university) courses from the age of 17 to 25, and like you I went through waves of being really interested in home-based education as a phenomenon and how it had helped to shape who I am ... and then pushing back against the idea that it was some sort of bellweather for my different-ness. <br /><br />For what it's worth, it does become less of an issue. I'm thirty-one now, and even when I purposefully talk about my background as a home-schooler most people aren't actively interested, unless they themselves are thinking of not sending their own children to school so want to talk about it in a parent-to-former-child way. It's self-evident that I'm a happy, functioning, adult contributing to society and making my way in the world ... so I think a lot of the anxiety people used to have around me (will she make it?! will she be normal!!?) just doesn't come to the fore any longer.<br /><br />Hopefully it will be the same for you! I continue to follow your projects on Facebook and here with great interest and wish you the best on your food adventures :)annajcookhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17573723390785613915noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8805323468407241809.post-47899229994608223982012-12-16T21:26:33.262-05:002012-12-16T21:26:33.262-05:00glad to see you happy, and i totally relate to you...glad to see you happy, and i totally relate to your frustration. [hugs]majikfaeriehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08604747660164437868noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8805323468407241809.post-87714588544353286362012-12-16T21:25:42.656-05:002012-12-16T21:25:42.656-05:00Knowledge is acquired through institutionalised in...Knowledge is acquired through institutionalised infusion of gathered facts. <br />Wisdom is a long shot. A rare pearl in the ocean of life, that comes by only through experience.<br /><br />I can relate to what you wrote, though, I am continents away.<br /> <br />I am trying hard to be a writer and wish you could read a portion of my manuscript and give your feedback.<br /><br />If you are interested, Please ask for a sample at deepak.chander79@gmail.com<br />Deepak Chandarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04238502813483791063noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8805323468407241809.post-37964917073108066862012-12-16T21:24:41.641-05:002012-12-16T21:24:41.641-05:00As the mother of three unschooled kids, it actuall...As the mother of three unschooled kids, it actually makes me feel better to read of your frustration. To explain, it doesn't make me feel better that you are frustrated, but that this type of frustration is not unique to my family. We end up having a lot of conversations in our family about how to present our unschooling lifestyle, as more often than not people really don't care to know, or their knee-jerk reactions are rude (quizzes or completely off-base assumptions). I've spent the last 15 years going between talking about it openly, trying to talk about it without applying the label, and feeling like I'm better off just keeping my mouth shut and letting people assume what they will. I guess I'm saying that I appreciate your frustration and I'm glad you've taken a moment to share it with us. Tracy Million Simmonshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07566716982333768811noreply@blogger.com