Some people eschew anything they see as labels, and that's fine. But as a word lover, I kind of like walking around with a string of words attached to me. I picture them trailing out behind my head, fluttering a bit in an imaginary breeze as I move around: a banner of pride. Yeah, pretty fanciful mental image, I know. But anyway, I choose to attach these words to my person because I identify strongly with them: they make me happy to use, I feel like each one describes me well, and I just like them. Those words are my friends.
|It's important, of course, that everyone gets to fill in their own labels. (Source)|
So that's why I don't find "labels" such as those confining at all: when a word stops feeling good, I simply drop it. As it is, I like being able to define my worldview, my philosophical views, basically the things that influence and impact the way I see things and choose to live my life, in ways that other people can (hopefully) understand. People with similar views can find me that way, and I feel like it's a bit of a warning to everyone in general: look out, radical here! I'm always slightly nervous that I'll encounter aggressive disagreement or stressful bullshit from random people when they discover what my views are, so I like to get it all out of the way as soon as possible, before I can start liking someone only to find they react in shock and disapproval when they discover what I really think about things!
Well, okay, that hasn't happened yet (the me liking someone then having them hate me because of my views bit, I mean. The aggressive bullshit thing has definitely happened!). But maybe that's just because of my clever strategy of being super open about my views right from the get-go, right?
Either way, I like my "labels" (though I prefer to refer to them simply as words, thus avoiding all the baggage that comes along with the L word). I like describing things (anything and everything, really) in words, and thus I like describing me in words. All the feelings I associate with the words I choose to use in regards to myself are positive, feel good ones, and as long as that continues to be the case, I'm going to hang onto them.
Which is why you won't find me bashing labels anytime soon!